Family Book...Forum Style

[Tony G]

So instead you stigmatized her and made her feel worse about her boobs? It was your duty to feel her boobs, just as a favor to her, of course.

[DanO]

Damn, I knew I screwed up.

[jaadam4]

You never pass up an opportunity to motorboat!

[Tony G]

apparently unless you shaved your balls

[Malto Marko]

So instead you stigmatized her and made her feel worse about her boobs? It was your duty to feel her boobs, just as a favor to her, of course.

You kidding?

Yup.

Sometimes it is not appropriate to take up an offer.

.......and character weaknesses would excuse inappropriate contact.

[Tony G]

while this wasn't a case of the sar-chasm, it was mostly good natured banter. Still, there was little info to understand any of the nuance or context of the situation. She might have actually wanted him to cop a feel. who knows? I don't think any of us do except for the ones who were there.

[DanO]

Oh I'm sure she wanted me to feel them at this point in my life. At the time I considered it inappropriate, not considering her possible reasoning. I never considered Tony's point. Didn't cross my mind. What crossed my mind was I wouldn't have done that in the past and I'm not going to take advantage of the situation. She had never offered before and this kinda stunned me. Didn't know how to react. I think you have a very valid point Tony.

[-Deborah-]

I have no idea what someone in her shoes is feeling. But as a woman, I might want someone fairly neutral to touch them and say, "Wow, those feel great!" as a measure of reassurance that the reconstruction was a success and that men find them desirable. Again, no idea if that's the case here. Just imagining the thoughts that might be going on.

[Panoptes]

Dano,

I'm pretty sure you were taught that "No means no," so, "YES, ALWAYS MEANS YES!". ;)

[Tony G]

On the other hand, flinching, then running away screaming "Mutant boobies!" would be a distinct no no.

[-Deborah-]

lol for sure

[Marko69]

And I suppose there is the time issue as well. How long do you feel them for? Is a gentle squeeze for a few seconds too short? Or is a more caressing movement, circling nipples for Five minutes, whilst holding your own crotch area, too long?
It's a dilemma.

[DanO]

LOL.

[WingsFan]

Tough stories guys, great attitudes - strong - well wishs

[Desert Lion]

First chemo today is done. Just have to wait on the side effects and see how we tackle them.